Ian - this is a brilliant post. And it's weird, but the Matrix sounds a lot like real life.
Many people are slaves to consumerism and the media, but they don't even know it.
And so many people are unhappy with their situations and just put up with it. I often wonder if they're really all that unhappy if they don't try to change their circumstances. Or do they really believe they can't do anything about it.
I often feel de-motivated at this time of year, but this post has spurred me on. Thank you.
You're so right. I know the Matrix isn't real. But in life, we often jump on the conveyor belt, and build brick walls to either side so we're stuck on it.
To get off, we have to scale one of those walls. The fact we don't even try makes Matrix worryingly reflective of how we live our lives.
Fear of failure often gets in the way. Often though, not trying is more risky and pretty much guarantees you'll stay stuck if you're in a fix or on the wrong conveyor belt.
Being one who believes in positive behavior, anytime I/we have been in a challenging position, I always ask myself, "is this what I have been "asking for"?" (since we draw to us what we think about-good or bad), and then ask, "what can I learn from this?
My glass in almost always half full. I am an optimist and avoid negative people and situations. I don't care to engage in gossip. My answer is often "that's not my rodeo:, meaning, it is none of my business, and I am not going to waste my precious thoughts being concerned with what others are, or are not doing.
Let's face it, if you ask ten people what you should do, you will get ten different answers..and they will all swear their idea is the best. I may ask a trusted person for their opinion, however, since I ultimately am the one who is responsible for the outcome, I also try to think before acting. I can't say I have always made the wisest choices, however, those choices are what made me who I am today.
Life would be so dull if every choice we made was right. Mistakes make us.
Would you watch a film if there wasn't some drama, comedy, or horror? And mistakes, things going wrong are all part of those genres. Even comedy. Why do we laugh when someone falls over?
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Ian - this is a brilliant post. And it's weird, but the Matrix sounds a lot like real life.
Many people are slaves to consumerism and the media, but they don't even know it.
And so many people are unhappy with their situations and just put up with it. I often wonder if they're really all that unhappy if they don't try to change their circumstances. Or do they really believe they can't do anything about it.
I often feel de-motivated at this time of year, but this post has spurred me on. Thank you.
You're so right. I know the Matrix isn't real. But in life, we often jump on the conveyor belt, and build brick walls to either side so we're stuck on it.
To get off, we have to scale one of those walls. The fact we don't even try makes Matrix worryingly reflective of how we live our lives.
Fear of failure often gets in the way. Often though, not trying is more risky and pretty much guarantees you'll stay stuck if you're in a fix or on the wrong conveyor belt.
Ian,
Wow, so thought provoking. Time off did you well.
Being one who believes in positive behavior, anytime I/we have been in a challenging position, I always ask myself, "is this what I have been "asking for"?" (since we draw to us what we think about-good or bad), and then ask, "what can I learn from this?
My glass in almost always half full. I am an optimist and avoid negative people and situations. I don't care to engage in gossip. My answer is often "that's not my rodeo:, meaning, it is none of my business, and I am not going to waste my precious thoughts being concerned with what others are, or are not doing.
Let's face it, if you ask ten people what you should do, you will get ten different answers..and they will all swear their idea is the best. I may ask a trusted person for their opinion, however, since I ultimately am the one who is responsible for the outcome, I also try to think before acting. I can't say I have always made the wisest choices, however, those choices are what made me who I am today.
Looking back, I think I did okay. :)
Barbara,
Life would be so dull if every choice we made was right. Mistakes make us.
Would you watch a film if there wasn't some drama, comedy, or horror? And mistakes, things going wrong are all part of those genres. Even comedy. Why do we laugh when someone falls over?
Good to hear you keep a half-full glass!
Hi Ian,
Great post. We often do have control over our own destiny -- having the desire, and the ability to conceive of that desire, is the key.
Of course, then the desire needs to be followed by a lot of hard work, intelligent decisions, and perhaps a bit of luck.
My philosophy: My glass is not only half-full, but I've get free refills!
Nez,
I love the fact you have a free-refills philosophy!
Hard work is the key. If it isn't hard, even if you're successful, I suspect the victory won't taste as sweet.
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