Thursday, 21 February 2008

Snooker - Nostalgic Trip Down Memory Lane

Tonight, I've been thinking mostly about snooker.

For those who don't know, it's a game. A 12' x 6' cloth covered table where you hit one ball with a wooden stick onto another. The object ball then disappears into a corner hole on the table.

Forget any business analogies. There isn't one. It's just a passion that I realise I lost when business replaced it. Or rather the stresses and deadlines of creating and turning around a business that had got out of control had done so.

Playing snooker.

I played every week with the lads. At least one night. I had my own cue (a wooden stick you hit the balls with).

If I dug around, somewhere in the house I'd find that cue. And I could look. But if I find it, I'll want to play again.

"But I can't"

If I do play snooker again I'll be entering my own personal time machine. I'll be turning the clock back to a time when I could do something personal.

Spend some time with my snooker friends. But they weren't there for the snooker per se. Like me, we were there for each other. We enjoyed each other's company. We laughed.

Now I'm at a crossroads. I started a business. It took over my life. 8-9 years later, I have forgotten what I used to do - like play snooker.

But is this the first germ of recovery? Myself and my colleagues have turned the business stuff around. When you've recovered from a business failure though and taste some success like we have, you start to think again - perhaps for the first time as the brain synapses reconnect with your former life.

I fancy a game of snooker.

I usually end each post with a request that you subscribe. But please don't. This post was personal. And even though there's loads of stuff underneath these words to think about, instead, think about your own version of snooker.

What are you passionate about? Or if you;ve been side-tracked in life by other stuff, think back to the things you enjoyed and set yourself a goal.

DO THOSE THINGS AGAIN - THE STUFF YOU REALLY ENJOY DOING.

P.S. Sorry to shout.


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3 comments:

Barbara said...

Ian

You're back!

This was a superb post about doing that which is really important in life...doing that, which gives us joy.

I say you should look for that cue stick and engage in a game of snooker in celebration of your success. Old traditions are often the best - maybe it's time to revive this one.

CatherineL said...

Hi Ian - This is an excellent point. We give up doing so much when we become too involved with our businesses.

I stopped seeing friends so much. And I almost gave up exercise completely. The same went for fiction writing - any writing I did was business related.

This post is inspiring. We really do need a balance and those of us who have given up things should begin doing them again.

Also, this should be a warning to new business owners too - don't give up everything you enjoy for the sake of your business.

Ian Denny said...

Barbara,

You're right. I found it at the bottom of the wardrobe.

Now I need to find time!

Got a packed weekend ahead - kids party tomorrow, and visitors Sunday.

And I've got a bit of work to do too!

Next weekend...

Cath,

You're right about the sacrifices. I doesn;t happen overnight. Bit by bit you start to give up the things you enjoy and love.

Before you really know it, you've stopped doing all the things you love.

Time to fight back!